get over with meaning in English

一劳永逸地做完

Other than the defensive lapse in the final minutes , there are 2 questions i still can ' t get over with
除了最后几分钟防守差劲外，我还有两个问题搞不明白。
Getting drunk is only a dumb excuse and a stupid move , i was still fully aware of what i ' m trying to get over with , the alcohol was only making it worse , it would only destroy your last courage and encourage you to cry out
罐醉自己无非是个蹩脚的借口和愚蠢的举动,酒醉后的我依然无法忘却自己的痛楚,酒精的作用无非是冲垮了我那最后的一点坚强并最终哭出声来